Cats sometimes become more active at night, but that doesn't mean they don't want to be close to their owners. Some cats may not like being touched or moved very much, so they may avoid these things at night. It's also possible that cats may be more alert and have more energy at night because of their instincts, so they may act more active. If you want to bond with your cat at night, consider engaging them in gentle activities such as play or taking photos.
You can also provide them with some engaging toys to give them something to do at night. It's important to remember not to force your cat to do anything they don't want to do, and to respect their wishes.