Dog dog died, daughter of 25 years old is right my have a fit, begin from a chapel before dog dog is mortal, the attending that the daughter begins a needle to go to passing, go to a doctor still has all sorts of alimental choices, give out intense dissatisfaction and doubt to me, blame the departure of the dog on my body, because 14 years I was opposite in the past,be like a dog can be of the dog to death take care of undeserved, and go to a doctor when insufficient discretion, still have not quite strict to alimental choice.
I am very distressed.
Because of the 14 age the middle of a month of dog dog, it is this paragraph of age that the daughter reachs 11 years old 25 years old, the daughter is in he is the greenest the most traitorous also day, often be absent to return constellation of the home, in residence, night, late, university hind is student of the exchange outside in residence, brigade, and be in the home when, it can play when thinking of dog dog, but if did not think of, like seeming to forget the existence of dog having a dog.
Busy exam when, can a chapel had not seen dog dog, when quarrelling with other in part, OK also a chapel had not fed it. Of course, every time the daughter should plan to go on a long journey, should go abroad, should exchange student in about a year even, also won't think of dog dog how to should do. Seem, what I do Mom this always is meeting processing, meeting like taking care of.
Can be now in the end, dog dog died, ground of daughter shout oneself hoarse howls to me, say the fault that is me.
Of course, I do not consider as my fault, I am very sad also, but I am more distressed is, this once was the dog that our home loves the most greatly only, how can be when leaving, leave a daughter so negative sentiment? How can you cause so intense and the utterance that is full of animosity and attack? To me?
" she is very sad only, she is very sad actually, she may be sad seek an exit to need. " psychological division says.
This meeting is the daughter's grown one class, if she is willing to open wide the ground deeply to face herself, face her regret and lose, his be not abandoned and annoy, also still face " the business that herself did not do good " .
Face when losing true love close kin, the blame that may appear, combat the boy or girl friend with Fu different blame, it is family occasionally, it is oneself occasionally.
May to prove the fault that is not oneself, need intense blame another person so, likely also to prove the fault that is not oneself, and protect personnel family to produce intense conflict with cure, also may to prove the fault that is oneself, and be immersed in ceaselessly self-condemned with remorseful mood in the center.
Because face,lose, need to the individual will blame it seems that. We are accepted very hard losing itself is can abiogenesis thing.
Because we always feel, certain somebody was quickened lose, caused lose, persuading those who lose to stay. Come again, we can discover we become frozen and merciless, not be every circumstance can cry, not be to be mentioned every time the metropolis is sad.
Because ego protects a mechanism to start gradually, tell us " the day still should go down too " ego protection, make our from time to time sober, from time to time is empty, resembling is like handling an official business, we seem strongly to seeing the thing that produces on others body again occasionally.
The sad reaction of the mood has a lot of kinds:
Included sad, lose, indignant, angst and self-condemned, ultimate hope can return calm.
Before returning calm again, the course that we had needed omits very hard, have us only " accept " all sad course, ability returns calm. If maintaining the mood that does not let oneself face and accept oneself forcedly to rise and fall, resembling is the cut that wraps up without good good processing, it is hard only cover it, touch very easily gently open, touch painful.